People are constantly trying to explore their sexuality and are finding out various ways to pleasure themselves. This exploration has given birth to many fetishes, some of them have become quite famous while some are still unknown to the masses. Today we’ll talk about one such famous fetish known as cuckolding.
What is cuckolding?
In more basic terms cuckolding refers to a sexual fetish or a type of lifestyle where one partner is sexually aroused by watching his or her partner having sex with somebody else. The cuckolding is also known as wife swapping or wife sharing. Here the partner who is getting aroused is known as cuckold and the person who is having sex with cuckold’s partner is known as the bull. The cuckold may enjoy the various different acts of sex such as foreplay, oral sex and penetrates. Sometimes the cuckold himself joins the other two and makes it a threesome. Cuckold is a great way where both the partners can have their fantasies fulfilled and test new intimate boundaries. There are various ways in which the couples try cuckolding , some may choose domination or humiliation as a tool as for others they may choose for elegant and sensual way to pleasure them shelves , the choice of the sex is totally on the partners so that they can spice up as they want. For couples whose sex lives are getting dull and missing the spark , they opt of cuckolding sometimes as to add a new level of excitement and adventure to their intimacy. Sometimes, couples also choose cuckolding to find out the better sex practices and arousal methods.
History of Cuckolding
The origin of the word cuckold lies in the name of a bird called cuckoo , this might not sound true to you but it is true. As the female cuckoo bird is infamous for laying their eggs in another bird’s nest and then leaving so someone else takes care of those eggs and their offspring. Later as the younglings of cuckoo birds grow faster than the other hatchlings, these young birds then drop and murder those eggs so that they can enjoy being alone. This deceitful nature of the cuckoo bird gave birth to the cuckold. As in the Mediaeval era the cuckold word was used to describe the men or lovers in relationship with unfaithful wives who are having extramarital relationships with other men. Furthermore, the word cuckold was also used for those men who were raising their own kids instead themselves. In current context , when a man fantasises about getting her wife impregnated by her lover or seeing them in the act of sex is referred to as a cuckold fetish.
Wife swapping or hotwifing are some of the terms that are often used in the place of cuckolding. The core of all these practices is the same as it involves partners having fetish to see their partner with somebody else. But all of them have their own differences. As wife swapping refers to when two or more couples exchange partners with each other and have sex together. Here both the partners are with somebody else who is doing the same act. Moreover, hotwifing refers to when a male decides to show off her sexy wife or partner to other people. In this case the partners choose the mate for his or her partner to have sex with , and have significant control over the situation. Here the cuck becomes the stag. Whereas , when cuckold is used it is more in the sense of cheating as here the partner who is watching the sex does not have the power to control the whole act , neither he or she chooses the bull for another partner, the whole situation remains out of control of the cuck. Furthermore, the cuckolding often have the element of humiliation or domination. As, the cuck often enjoys when his or her partner compares him with the bull and how he or she is nothing compared to the bull.
Why is cuckolding so famous?
It might be hard for you to believe but the cuckolding fetish is quite common in today’s time. The cuckold is one of the most searched categories over the porn websites. So let us see why people are so excited about cuckolding. The most widespread reason is the hum feeling of taking joy from another person’s happiness which is also known as compression. These types of people are often in open relationships where they constantly explore their sexual boundaries by sharing their lovers with others and they take pleasure when their partner is enjoying the act. Secondly ,the taboo element in this fetish often attracts people to try it as they all want to have a piece of forbidden apple. Doing acts that are not socially acceptable or legal gives people a different kind of thrill and pleasure. The cuckolding also gives the same kind of thrill when they do something which they are not supposed to do. Moreover, cuckolding is an exciting way for one to figure out their sexual orientation, these people often use their partner as a test subject but giving them to the Bulls they like then by seeing and listening to the experience of their partner they often determine their sexual orientation Power dynamics or pleasing the alpha is also a factor which is why the cuckolding fetish is popular. Some people feel like slaves of their partner and they want to serve him or her to the best and they stop serving them. These people often help their partners in selecting the bull and enjoy seeing their partner getting joy. These people also enjoy the humiliation that comes with it , when the bull performs better than them. There are many BDSM videos of cuckolding categories available on the internet which represent this slave mentality. In these videos the cuck is locked in boxes or cages and are made to watch the sex between their partner and bull. For some of the cucks it is a matter of pride when they share their partner with another person and they feel happy when the bull enjoys it with their hot partner. Furthermore, cuckolding provides you the option of watching a live pron where you can choose the stars yourself who won’t love this kind of porn. For some people cuckolding is a way to reignite the passion in their sex life ,by inviting the third party into their bed they ensure that the things remain heated and they do find new Spark in their relationship.
How to start trying cuckolding?
Sexual fetishes are often hard to do in real life and the same is the case with cuckolding. Due to involvement of an outsider in the intimate act which is supposed to be only between the two lovers leads to rise in various complications. The major issue associated with cuckolding is , making your partner agree with it ,what might be sensual and erotic for you , does not mean it would be the same for your partner. Your partner may not be comfortable with having sex with some stranger as they might see this act as unethical or adultery. Another task is to find out the third party or the bull. As being in the bed of another couple and being watched by one of them might not be a desired turn on for some. Moreover, choosing the right person , whom both the partners find hot is also a hard task as the pleasure of both the partners depends on it . So let us discuss how to address both of these issues. Making your partner comfortable with the idea of Cuckolding It is important to choose the timing when it comes to discussing your sexual fetishes with your partner and asking them to join you. The best time to discuss these fetishes is when you and your partner have a lot of time in hand , no time constraints and there are good vibes everywhere. Also it is important to find out that your partner is open to having these discussions to ensure the success of this discussion. Another key is to ensure that your partner completely understands the concepts of cuckolding and you should remove any misconceptions that he or she have regarding the cuckolding , and also assume that he or she may have regarding the cuckolding you must address them safely.
How to approach the bull or the third party?
If you are thinking that you’ll find your bill in porn like scenarios such as a plumber coming into your house for fixing something and you notice him checking your partner , and you asked him to join you on your bed and then you can have cuckolding , you can forget it as in real life you’ll have to face many hardship to find out the right man or woman as you’ll have to ensure that you do not run into them in future. In this case dating apps like Tinder or Grinder can come in handy as they can provide you with a lot of choices so that you and your partner can choose the best fit. Furthermore, there are negligible chances that you’ll run into them in your regular life in future so what happens in your bedroom stays in your bedroom. Furthermore, if you are sceptical about the people on Tinder and Grinder, you can always look out for the various intimate bars and public places in your areas, moreover you can join various groups, related to sex or cuckolding in your city and can also find the bull there. Sex parties or orgies are also a good source when it comes to finding the third party for your cuckolding.